Why Families Choose to Pre-Plan Funerals

March 23, 2026

What was the last celebration you attended like? Maybe it was a wedding, a baby shower, or a ribbon cutting for a new business. Were there invitations, decorations, photos, speeches, and careful planning? We are accustomed to planning and celebrating beginnings and origins, but every person at the heart of these celebrations will also one day die. The lives they’ve led are rich with stories, connections, values,impact, heartache, tribulations- all worthy of celebration and reflection, too.


Because our culture is often averse to talking about death, many families avoid the topic entirely. The result is having no plan and scrambling when death inevitably occurs. For those who do choose to pre-plan, and for those considering it, here are several reasons families plan funeral arrangements ahead of time.

Pre-planning gives families peace, before and after a death 

Pre-planning is ultimately a gift of peace. When arrangements are made in advance, families can focus on enjoying the time they have together, whether that time is measured in years or weeks. After a death occurs, families can also be present with one another. The plan that was created is simply followed, and everyone knows their role.

Pre-planning lets families grieve, without planning 

When a death occurs and arrangements are already in place, families can gather, share meals, and do what they need to do in their grief.


What they don’t have to do is search for a funeral home and begin the process of planning services while navigating the shock of loss. Being able to grieve without simultaneously planning funeral details is a rare and meaningful luxury.

Pre-planning helps protect family dynamics 

When preferences have been discussed, plans documented, and services paid for, disputes over what should happen are greatly reduced. The plan is clearly documented, and can guide the family. Even families with strong communication and ties can have disputes during times of grieving and loss. Families that plan ahead safeguard their relationships. 

Pre-Planning can be a Bonding Experience 

Talking about end-of-life wishes as a family can feel uncomfortable at first, but it often becomes an opportunity for connection. These conversations invite honesty and can open the door to sharing stories, memories, and values with one another. Through this process, family members often come to understand each other more deeply, strengthening trust and creating a greater sense of closeness.

Pre-planning protects families from unexpected expenses 

Social security provides a $255 death benefit to eligible survivors. While the average direct cremation in California is $1,582, and the average funeral with a viewing and burial is $7,848. 



These are stats from 2023 and do not include the cost of the plot and the costs associated with opening and closing a grave. These costs can vary greatly. Any unexpected expense along this spectrum can be challenging for many families pay. Families who pay for final expenses in advance relieve financial pressure during an already hard time.

Pre-planning allows wishes to be met 

Whether someone is interested in more traditional services or exploring greener options, there are many decisions involved in final arrangements. Pre-planning allows those wishes to be clearly expressed and carried out.


Some options, such as terramation, are newer and may require additional education or coordination. Planning ahead gives families time to understand these choices and ensures that personal values are honored. 


If something unexpected happened tomorrow, would your family know what your wishes are, or would they have to guess? We spend so much time planning life’s beginnings, celebrations filled with intention, love, and care .Pre-planning end-of-life arrangements is simply another way of offering that same care.This blog is part of a series exploring end-of-life pre-planning. If you’re curious about what pre-planning involves, read our blog about what to expect during a pre-planning meeting. There is never any pressure to make a decision, only an opportunity to learn and consider what feels right for you and your family.


Explore the series: 

Part 1: Why Families Choose to Pre-Plan End-of-Life Arrangements (this blog)

Part 2: What to Expect During an End-of-Life Pre-Planning Meeting

Part 3: Spring and Tax Season: A Natural Time to Think About End-of-Life Planning

November 4, 2026
If you’re learning about green burial and natural burial, you may wonder if there are any differences between these terms. In most contexts, they mean the same thing: returning the body to the earth using biodegradable materials, without conventional embalming or a burial vault. Both allow for a simple return to nature, allowing the body to become part of the living landscape once again. The language can become confusing because “Green Burial” is sometimes used broadly to describe other options such as terramation (aka human composting) and aquamation (aka water cremation) . When discussing eco-friendly options that do not involve burying a body, “Green Funerals” or “Green Death Care” are more accurate terms. What is Natural Burial Natural burial is the practice of allowing the body to decompose naturally in the earth. With minimal intervention, the body’s nutrients return to the earth through the work of naturally occurring decomposition. Though practices vary by cemetery, you’ll generally see natural and green burial outlined as: Avoiding conventional embalming or toxic preservation fluids. Forgoing vaults or concrete liners. Using caskets or shrouds made of renewable, natural, & biodegradable materials. Choosing simple natural markers that complement the landscape. The surrounding landscape may look different from a conventional cemetery, too. In some natural burial grounds, native grasses, wildflowers, and trees take the place of meticulously manicured lawns. A natural burial can take place in: An uncertified natural burial ground or cemetery. A Green Burial Council-certified cemetery. A hybrid cemetery- a conventional cemetery that allows natural burial in dedicated sections. Private property burial may also be an option in some locations, depending on state and local requirements. In California, in limited rural areas, a small private or family cemetery can be established through strict licensing and approvals. You can learn more about establishing a private cemetery here. Is Green Burial Different from Natural Burial? In most cases, no. Both terms describe a full-body burial that allows for natural decomposition in the earth. The use of the term “natural” emphasizes the process of returning to the earth with limited intervention, while “green” emphasizes environmental considerations. The priorities go hand in hand: simpler burial materials and fewer interventions allow for a more eco-friendly and direct return to the earth. The key distinction here is the word burial. Aquamation, Cremation, and Terramation are not forms of burial, but dispositions that reduce the body with an alkaline solution, fire, or natural decomposition. They transform the body in a controlled environment before returning the resulting remains to the earth. Cremation and aquamation produce remains from bones, commonly called “ashes”, while terramation produces “soil” or compost (you’ll also hear the term reduced remains- we cover this in this post about terramation terminology here ). Families may choose to bury or scatter these remains, but this is a separate step. With natural and green burial, the body’s transformation takes place within the earth. Green Burial and Green Death Care You’ll see that “green burial” is occasionally used interchangeably with “green death care”. However, green death care is an umbrella term for environmentally conscious funeral options, and green and natural burial fall underneath this umbrella. Aquamation and terramation are separate processes that can also fall within green death care. Think of green death care as a broad spectrum- caring for someone after death while considering the resources used, materials left behind, and the impact on the environment. Green death care can encompass both disposition choices and individual practices, including: Natural or green burial. Aquamation (water cremation). Terramation (human composting). Full-body burial at sea using appropriate biodegradable materials. Choosing simpler, biodegradable funeral products. Avoiding conventional embalming or choosing less toxic body-care options when preparation is desired. Reducing the environmental impact of conventional services through changes in materials, transportation, or energy use. Supporting carbon-offset projects. What Does Green Burial Certification Mean? The Green Burial Council has different certification standards for cemeteries, funeral homes and products. Certification provides a framework for evaluating specific practices and helping families understand what a provider offers. For cemetery certification, cemeteries undergo an evaluation and are scored based on outlined criteria. It is important to note that the Green Burial Council does not conduct compliance checks after initial certification. Certification can help families find providers and compare their practices. However, Green Burial Council certification is voluntary and not required to arrange a natural burial. An uncertified cemetery may still allow a burial that follows natural burial practices. See a beautiful example of a Los Angeles’ family’s experience of natural burial here . LifeSource had the honor of guiding this family in preparing a natural burial for their loved one, Maria. LifeSource had the honor of guiding this family in preparing a natural burial for their loved one, Maria. Her wishes were inspired by the simplicity of Jewish burial traditions and the meaning she found in returning directly to the earth. Her story illustrates how natural burial can reflect both personal beliefs and a connection to nature.  Considering Green or Natural Burial in Southern California? Whether you are planning ahead or caring for someone who has died, LifeSource can help you explore a return to the earth that reflects your values. Our team can explain natural burial arrangements, discuss available cemetery options, and help you understand each step. Exploring other paths? LifeSource offers the following dispositions: Terramation Aquamation Flame Cremation Burial at Sea Natural Burial (covered here)